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10 Gap Activewear Pieces So Luxe, They Look Triple the Price

Gap is one of our go-to stores for scoring high-quality (and stylish!) workout gear. The brand's pieces aren't just top-notch, but just like Gap's sister brand, Old Navy, you can almost always score some really great deals - even on new arrivals. Case in point: Right now, Gap is offering discounts of 40 to 60 percent across the board, meaning epic deals are waiting in every category. We're especially eyeing its latest fitness drops, which include everything from chic activewear dresses and versatile pleated skorts to classic essentials like T-shirts and workout leggings. To clue you in on how great its deals are, we curated this guide to the best new workout clothes from Gap for spring, almost all of which are already discounted. We included a workout onesie you'll want to wear both in and out of the gym, the softest activewear tee we've tried recently, and a matching set bound to become a compliment magnet. Keep scrolling to shop our top 15 favorites. Related: 15 Top-Rated Workout Essentials on Amazon, From Sneakers to Weights
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Sorry, Taylor Swift: You Can’t Fix Him (No You Really Can’t)

If there's anything Taylor Swift's new album "The Tortured Poets Department" has taught me, it's that no one is immune to the fuckery that comes from being in a situationship. Not even Swift herself. Despite being a professed romantic, even Swift has been "down bad" for mediocre dudes with tattoos. But among the many relationship experiences Swift candidly alludes to throughout "TTPD," perhaps the most relatable lyric comes from track 11: "I Can Fix Him (No Really I Can)." In it, Swift sings, "They shake their heads saying 'God help her' when I tell them he's my man. But your good lord doesn't need to lift a finger, I can fix him - no, really, I can." For anyone who's ever thought they could fix someone, and has since lived to tell the tale, you know all too well that it's a canon event. It allows women everywhere to attempt to fix someone only to eventually realize the hard way that people can't be fixed - not even the super hot Tinder match who swears they're "really into you." "If you want to be with someone that you think you can 'fix,' you are setting yourself up for disappointment," clinical psychologist Roxy Zarrabi, PsyD, says. "Pursuing a relationship with the hope that someone will change is similar to accepting crumbs and hoping for a meal that never arrives." Because you may read the above and still think "OK, but I can actually fix him," we had Dr. Zarrabi and four other relationship experts weigh in on whether it's actually possible to fix someone. Can You Fix Someone You're Dating? In the traditional sense, no. "The only thing in life that you have true control over is yourself," psychotherapist Ronald Hoang says. "You cannot (as much as you hope you can) enforce change upon your partner." If the problem you have with the person you're dating is a part of their core self, like their values, religious beliefs, political stance, or a basic personality trait, you likely won't have any luck "fixing" them. "People will only change through their own motivation to do so." You may, however, be able to improve relationship issues, like communication skills, the way conflict is handled, and coping mechanisms, as long as you and your partner are willing to work on them together, sex therapist Brittney Fortin, LMFT, says. This is contingent on if your partner wants to work on it, though. "Someone cannot be fixed unless they agree to be fixed," says Nicholette Leanza, a therapist at LifeStance Health. "People will only change through their own motivation to do so." Bottom line: No matter how great you are or whatever your "certain skill set" is, as Swift refers to, it's not possible to fix someone who doesn't want to be fixed. What to Do If You Want to Fix the Person You're Dating The simple solution is to find someone who doesn't need to be fixed. You are likely not compatible with someone who you think needs to be fixed in order to be your person. "This is not only unfair to you, but also to your partner, who deserves to be with someone who accepts them as they are," Dr. Zarrabi says. But because it's not always that simple, try to pin down what exactly you want to change about the person you're seeing. Is it something that's inherently a part of who they are? Or is it a behavior that can be changed? If it's a behavior, know that they won't "fix" anything if they don't want it to be fixed. But you can positively influence their behavior with your presence, support, and love, clinical psychologist Christina Iglesia, PsyD, says. That said, if you find yourself repeatedly feeling drawn to fixing people you date, it may have more to do with you than it does with them. "Consider the role you are playing in this dynamic, what purpose this role serves for you, and what past painful experiences you've had that may have shaped this pattern for you," Dr. Zarrabi says. A good place to explore why you may feel the need to fix your partners is in therapy. "Sometimes we fix others because we equate love with someone needing us. Sometimes we try and fix others because we grew up in codependent relationships and therefore believe it is our responsibility to save people from themselves. Sometimes we attempt to fix others because we would rather focus our mental energy on fixing someone else's issues than fixing our own," Dr. Igleisa says. Whatever the case, fixing someone is not worth the time and energy 99 percent of the time. So even if Swift made "fixing" someone seem cool again, "focus on being the right partner for yourself," Leanza says. It's way less stressful. Related: "The Tortured Poets Department" Is Cathartic as Hell - Experts Explain Why Taylor Andrews is a balance editor at POPSUGAR who specializes in topics relating to sex, relationships, dating, sexual health, mental health, and more. In her six years working in editorial, she's written about how semen is digested, why sex aftercare is the move, and how the overturn of Roe killed situationships.
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20 Beautiful April Birth Flower Tattoos

There's something so serene about April, as the month marks the glorious arrival of spring. While there are many natural markers of the season, daisies and sweet peas are the ideal flowers to represent the simplistic beauty of springtime. Both flowers bloom primarily at the peak of springtime and are widely known as April birth flowers, owing to their symbolic meanings innately resonating with those born within the month - similar to astrology tattoos. So, if you're an April baby looking for meaningful ink that perfectly captures your essence, we can help. With their evenly elongated white petals and golden yellow centers, Daisies symbolize love, purity, and new beginnings. Their sunny disposition evokes a sense of pure joy, natural simplicity, and innocence, making them an excellent tattoo option for those seeking a design that exudes and encapsulates similar positive qualities. It also serves as a reminder of the quiet sense of peace that life's small pleasures offer. Sweet peas, on the other hand, are known for their strikingly vibrant, pastel-hued petals and enchanting fragrance. They inherently represent blissful pleasure and fresh beginnings, but that's not all. The true beauty of April's birth flowers lies in their versatility. They come in different colors and varieties, each carrying a unique meaning. So, it's no wonder that they make for great body art, as they offer endless possibilities that are both stunning and rich in meaning. From intricate floral tattoos to minimalistic designs featuring daisies and sweet peas, we've rounded up unique birth flower tattoos ahead. Whether you're looking to celebrate your birth month, pay tribute to a loved one, or simply adorn yourself with a symbol of springtime's beauty, keep reading to grab inspiration for your April birth flower tattoo.
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Shopping Editor Sarah Wasilak’s 12 Spring Must Haves

As a shopping editor, I'm well-versed in everything from viral products like the Alix Earle selfie light and coveted Dyson Airwrap to crucial travel essentials such as carry-on luggage and face SPF. So it's no surprise my seasonal must haves run the gamut. In general, my style is founded on function and ease, but with a fashion-girl twist. Therefore, you'll find that when I'm packing resistance bands, they're from a designer collaboration and splashed with eye-catching prints. And when I'm collecting fresh white tees, they're beyond your basic silhouette. This spring and summer, I'll be traveling a lot - with Charleston, Palm Springs, and Greece on the agenda - so you'll find that the majority of my wish list is devoted to versatile items that are light enough to take with me wherever I go. There are some luxurious upgrades I've made to my home, too - mostly so that my decor makes me feel like I'm still living in an oasis, even when I return from vacation. I've swapped my old bath towels for plush organic cotton and my heavyweight comforter for a bamboo viscose blanket that has allowed me to sleep so much more comfortably in the warm weather. Ahead, you can scroll through my seasonal wish list and find out how I'm using each of these products to better my lifestyle. Related: 4 Editors Put Quay's Viral Sunglasses to the Test
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Taking a Road Trip This Summer? 27 Essentials to Bring

Hitting the highway for a road trip may be one of the best ways to see the country. Plus, it can be more affordable than flying, and certainly cheaper than international travel. If you already have travel plans in mind, it's smart to prepare accordingly with some road trip essentials. Whether it's a long car ride by yourself, with family members, a significant other, or a close friend, there's something on this packing list for everyone, no matter where you're going. Below, see our top musts for what to bring on a road trip, before shopping some specific items in each category. A spacious backpack to travel light and maximize trunk space. A portable garbage can to keep your car tidy. A cooler for snacks and drinks. A travel pillow to snooze when you're in the passenger seat. A raincoat for unexpected weather. An air mattress, if you plan on camping. A physical map in case you lose service or your phone runs out of battery. Perhaps most importantly, a car emergency kit. Ready to join your fellow wanderlusts on the road, traveling the coast, visiting national parks, and sightseeing? We promise this checklist will make your journey more comfortable. Shop our road trip selections ahead. - Additional reporting by Lauren Harano and Emily Co Related: How to Travel on a Budget, According to Experts
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The Ultimate Gift Guide For the 30-Something Mom in Your Life

Mother's Day is just around the corner, and whether you're shopping for a friend, coworker, mentor, or relative, finding the perfect gift for the mom in their 30s can be tricky. To help, we rounded up the best gift ideas for the 30-something woman in your life, whether they love a present that's both practical and stylish or they're hoping to be treated to something special - perhaps even a luxurious find. Do they love to unwind after a long day? Get them a bath tray that can fit their essentials, including products, a good book, a phone, and even a few snacks. Treat them to the best noise-canceling headphones on the market so they can have some much-needed time for themselves. Shopping for someone who's constantly on the go or an avid traveler? Get them a stylish tote from Cuyana or the Mini Weekender bag from Béis. Or, if you're on the hunt for a last-minute Mother's Day gift that will arrive in the nick of time, turn to Amazon for a thoughtful present like the editor-favorite The Five-Minute Journal or the Vitruvi Stone Diffuser. We also found some useful picks for those who who want to boost their productivity, including a tablet that can do it all, a reusable notebook that can transfer written notes to any device, and more. Ahead, you can shop all our best gifts for women, including our top Mother's Day picks. - Additional reporting by Macy Cate Williams and Kyley Warren Related: The Best Gifts For Men in Their 20s
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